One of those barriers, the author says, that often gets in the way of Church moving forward with missional work are “naysayers.” Their words:
“Naysayers are highly skilled urgency killers, and the church is full of them. They can be powerful barriers to missional engagement and progress. They are not true skeptics, who serve a good purpose by curbing naive enthusiasm and can be convinced by evidence. Rather, naysayers will discredit people and derail the process. They continue to question the information and demand more proof. They disrupt useful conversation and cause delay and frustration. You can’t ignore them. You can’t co-opt them. You must distract them, push them out of the organization, or expose their behaviors in a socially acceptable way so that social pressure will shut them down.”
As I thought about it some more, I now realize that I shouldn't be surprised at the presence of naysayers, because the fact is that naysayers have been disciples from the very beginning. Judas was the first naysayer, “faithful” to following Jesus to the very end. It was most probably Judas, the keeper of the money who objected to Jesus being anointed by the woman with very expensive perfume, claiming that it could have been sold and the money given to the poor. It was an offering of a gift, and Judas led the cause to say, “Nay!” Never mind that the perfume wasn't his to sell: he was standing on the sidelines barking about what he would do with the money given the chance. His hunger for power is revealed in the next verses when he sells Jesus out to the authorities for money that was most definitely not given to the poor. Of course Judas is “supportive” of Jesus and the ministry up to the very end. And, according to the text, he is surprised that Jesus would even suspect that he was the betrayer among the disciples: “Surely you don’t mean me, Rabbi?” Trying to manipulate Jesus and the other witnesses with his false incredulity, this denial came after he had already sold information about Jesus to the chief priests.
But we don't, or at least shouldn't, follow the direction of manipulative naysayers. In fact, in the church, we follow an earnest yay!sayer in Jesus. When conventional wisdom said it was impossible, Jesus said yay! over and over again. One example of this is in the feeding of the 5000. The people were hungry for two things. First, they were hungry to hear Jesus speak. They wouldn't have followed him to the middle of nowhere otherwise. Secondly, they were now just plain hungry for real food. Jesus knew it, the disciples knew it, and the boy (in John's version at least) knew it. The naysayers (perhaps led by the selfish pragmatist, Judas?) told Jesus to send the people away with directions to the nearest village to eat, a kind of “help-people-to-help-themselves” approach. But Jesus knew they were all called to be miracle workers that day and suggested something, “You feed them,” at which I am sure the naysayers, who obviously knew best, laughed. It didn't make sense, but Jesus said yay! to the disciples living into who they were called to be: co-facilitators of miracles God is just waiting to perform through those who would trust him.
This is the God I love at work and I see it happening in pockets of our community: sometimes in our churches. But more and more, its happening outside of our churches, by yay!sayers who won't wait for permission by the power broking naysayers in churches to do the work at which Jesus would smile.
Judas lost his opportunity to live into the miracle of saying yay! to Jesus, and died lonely and bitter. But the same fate doesn't have to happen to our living naysayers. If you are in the extremely fortunate position to recognize that you are a naysayer, stop it, and find out what is really causing “nay!” to perpetually escape your lips. This may happen through a string of direct “no” votes to missional work in your community, or in passive aggressive ways addressed in the book quote above. If you are mindful of these things happening over and over, you really are fortunate to have such mindfulness. Take advantage of that self-awareness and choose another way! Secondly, seek help from your pastor or a counselor. You may be surprised that the saying of nay is actually covering up something that deeply wounded you a long time ago. The fact is that you will always be haunted by this habit if you don't address the root causes. Kind of like an aggressive dandelion patch. It might look good to simply mow over the top of them, but they will always always always come back unless you take care of the roots. Finally, befriend a strong yay!sayer and learn from them. Get the joy they feel in recognizing that the God they follow doesn't know the same barriers you have made up as a naysayer. You will see in them that life is just full of all sorts of possibility, rather than something to be endured or resisted. Impossibilities become achievable challenges.
I pray that the church can get its act together, but mostly I pray that the people who make up the church can get the help they need to live fully into discipleship. Because this not a game. It is not a social club. There are people dying in our world, starving for a Christian witness against violence, for feeding miracles to happen again, for the eradication of systemic oppression. It is absolutely urgent that Christ's disciples start following him to those places, many of which exist right outside the door of the sanctuary. I would love to have the naysayers on board with this mission, because quite honestly, the world needs all the help it can get. But disciples shouldn't be wasting their time arguing with naysayers: too many lives are at stake for that kind of verbal pattycake. Just get out and do it.
All those in favor of doing the work of Jesus, say Yay!