Friday, October 28, 2011

Like a tree, planted by the water

That person is like a tree planted by streams of water,
which yields its fruit in season
and whose leaf does not wither—
whatever they do prospers.
--Psalm 1:3

Last month Mira and I got to spend a wonderful weekend in the Redwood forest witnessing the beginning of her brother Justin's marriage to his, now, wife, Lilita. It was a wonderful time of community, celebration, sharing, and being in nature with friends and family. I am in awe of his circle of many many friends, who, filled with talent and vision, also provide a love and caring for one another that is unrivaled, even in church communities. We felt so welcomed and loved, engaging in deep conversations, laughing, dancing, playing music, and just being together. There was little anxiety about how things were going to get done (believe it or not there is a lot of preparation that goes into a camping wedding!), because people just did the work necessary, with glad smiles on their faces and in their hearts, because of their love for Justin and Lil. I was humbled to see this and be a small part of this community for a bit. The lesson is that when you love someone so much, you just do what it takes with joy in your heart.

But what I was really struck by, in that time in Northern California, are those great trees. I learned from the National Park Service website that the average age of the redwoods is between 500 and 700 years old, and that some of the biggest ones are up to 2000 years old. This means that most of these trees were between saplings and adolescent trees when Columbus began his American invasion, and by the time the American revolution rolled around in 1776, the majority of that forest that exists today was already between 300 and 400 years old. Of course, the oldest of the trees were just sprouting out of the ground when Jesus was born! As we witnessed the removal of the large tree in front of the parsonage this week (“measley” 3 ½ feet in diameter and only 39 years old!), I thought about those old trees and how many more of them there must have been before mass human habitation. The ones that remain have seen it all--although they have only seen it all from where they were planted. Imagine spending your entire life in literally the same exact place, not moving a single foot! Now imagine spending 20 more of those lives in the same place! Their lives firmly planted in the soil with roots spreading over a hundred feet away from their trunk, and encountering and witnessing life from a permanent position. It is grand and humbling, especially considering how much running around we humans do, declaring material things that we have made or bought as extremely important, and worrying about events that haven't happened yet. As I write this, I am worried about Mira and Auggie traveling, and how I'm going to cope without them for the next few days. But when I worry and rush, I miss out on the smiles Auggie is dishing out for free. I miss an opportunity to talk with my neighbor. I lose touch with the things that really do bring me joy, satisfaction, and contentment. While I am not an animist, I can't help but learn this simple and wise lesson from the trees: “God is always good. God will always provide. Live well, do your part, and God will let you know when its over.” I imagine that if they really did talk, it would be in a voice similar to Alan Rickman or James Earl Jones, rich and full.

Perhaps the community that formed in that grove of sequoias can inform me a bit in how I am with the people around me in the same way those trees informed the wedding party itself. Don’t constantly have an agenda with people. Just simply be present to them, the same way God calls us to presence with God. The same way the trees are a constant presence to whatever community forms in their midst. I pray that we as a human race can one day let go of the formation of strategies and structures that tie us down, and simply seek the real presence of the One and the ones in our midst.

Eric